Relational Self-Defense
Many of our most stressful moments arise in subtle social situations — where boundaries, power, and expectations collide. We feel something is off, but finding a response that preserves both our dignity and the other person’s humanity can be surprisingly hard.
In this offering, we work with real-life situations you’re navigating: difficult conversations, unwanted attention, high-pressure asks, or moments where you need to say no without rupturing connection.
Together, we develop clear, embodied responses that protect self-trust, reduce harm, and sometimes even open unexpected moments of connection.
Creating Reciprocity
The Experience of We is rooted in mutual care, integrity, and sustainability. We want this work to be accessible to those who feel genuinely called. And we also need it to be regenerative for us as human beings doing this work long-term.
For now, reciprocity most often takes the form of financial investment. Rather than fixed pricing, we work with a sliding scale that reflects both the value of the offering and each person’s level of financial sovereignty. We seek an investment that holds those we work with in integrity: something that feels significant enough to reflect the value of the offering while also remaining holistically sustainable for their lives.
This isn’t as simple as “paying for a service.” It’s about participating in a balanced exchange, one that honors the time, care, and depth of what’s being offered, while remaining attuned to the realities of your life.
Over time, we hope The Experience of We can grow into a living system where reciprocity flows in many forms. For now, we begin where we are: with clarity, consent, and shared responsibility for the health of the relational field we’re entering together.